Gabbie Alexander '25

Major: Psychology

What was it like being among the first in your family to go to college?

It was very stressful at first, not having anyone around me who had a clear idea of what I was supposed to do or what to expect. Finding out I had been accepted to UP was so exciting, but it was also terrifying. Here I was going into this new experience not only for me but for my parents too. We all did our best trying to figure things out, and obviously, it did work out in the end, but it was a very confusing and stressful process getting ready for my first year. I think what helped me succeed the most was the support of both my family and the FGEN program. My family was always there to support me I n any way they could, and FGEN was there to help steer me in the right direction when I got confused. FGEN helped me explore and navigate this new educational experience, and help me meet new people along the way. They truly helped me succeed in my first year, and I do not believe I would have been as successful without them.

What does it mean for your personally to be a part of the FGEN community and, specifically, to be a FGEN student ambassador?

It honestly means a lot to me to be a part of the FGEN community. I think it helps to show people, especially young FGEN high school students, that you really can do anything you put your mind to. It shows that you don't have to come from a college-educated family in order to succeed in your own college experience. I am so honored to be an FGEN student ambassador because I will get the chance to help other FGEN students navigate their college experience, and show them the amazing community they have to help them.

What is your advice to FGEN students at UP who are facing challenges?

My advice would be to never be afraid to ask questions. This is a confusing experience, and the best way to work through it is by asking every question. Trying to figure everything out by yourself can be very hard, and add a lot of stress to your life. Asking for help and talking to people about your struggles can help so much, and it can help show you that you are definitely not alone in having these feelings

Did a mentor play a role in your experience?

My freshman year was rough, but thankfully I developed a very close relationship with my assistant hall director who helped me tremendously when I faced difficulties. She was always there for me to talk to when I needed it, and to recommend resources around campus. Having her as a mentor was so helpful because, without her, I would've been so lost and felt so alone. The transition to college life is so much easier when you have someone to turn to for guidance, and as a first-generation student, that isn't always your parents.

What resources have been significant, meaningful or helpful for you so far during your UP experience?

My mentor played a big role in my experience. One of the most confusing things about my experience was dealing with the financial aid process. During my first few weeks of school, I was trying to apply for a scholarship/grant, but I couldn't figure out why my application wouldn't submit. I brought this to my mentor, and it turned out that I was actually applying for the wrong one. She helped me find the one I was looking for, I was able to submit my application, and I got the grant which helped so much. Getting the grant helped relieve so much stress, and I learned that having my mentor was so helpful with anything I was confused about.