It felt special. I didn't know how to take it because it felt like such a big deal. The pressure was definitely there but I also feel very proud. My family, especially my mom worked hard to get me to where I am and I feel like I am going to college not only for myself but for her and the rest of my family.
To be an FGEN and an ambassador is super important to me. I have always been shy and always feel like it is difficult to put myself out there just to belong. Here, I feel like I belong without trying, and I want to make other people feel like they belong the way the FGEN community has done for me.
It sounds cliche but it honestly does get better. If it doesn't feel like it is, just know that when you are at your lowest point, the only way to go is up. It is also good to reach out and ask for help or even just be in the company of others. Everyone has something going on and it is better to face challenges together than alone.
I feel like I've had many mentors throughout my life, but the ones I've had here during my first year really made it helpful. They made me feel heard and validated for feeling the way I did about coming to college.
Joining club tennis and going to FGEN events were super important to me because I have made friends in both places that I know I will continue to hang out with for the rest of my college career and beyond.
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